What keeps us from including in the 16 Days Campaign the gendered nature of men’s violence against other men?

On the last day of the 16 Days Campaign on No Violence Against Women and Children in South Africa, here is my short contribution. It is not much. I am not the only one who has said what I am about to say. It isn’t the first time I have said this. But, who knows, … Continue reading

Sexuality / Violence

Even as We Face Sexual Violence, Young (and Not So Young People) Still Need To Know Some Things Before Oral Sex

In November I posted this piece about “6 Things African Boys (and Grown Men) Need to Embrace About Masturbation”. The nub of the post was this video lesson from presented by presented by Cheyenne, who says she is from outside Los Angeles in the United States and has Mexican, Cuban and White American ancestry. … Continue reading