Black Gay Men’s Story about Doing their Daughters’ is really about Parenting, Masculinity, and Race
Blacks / Masculinity / Men / Parenting / Sexuality

Black Gay Men’s Story about Doing their Daughters’ is really about Parenting, Masculinity, and Race

  Last year I posted on social media about the couple Kaleb and Kordale Lewis who caused a storm because of a picture they put on the web. It was an image of them doing their daughters’ hair for school. The image went viral. Hundreds, possibly thousands, of comments followed. Here they are in a … Continue reading

Gender / Images / Masculinity / Men

I Feel Masculine Because I Study Philosophy, Not Literature

When do you most feel masculine? What does masculinity mean to you? Does it mean working with your hands? Under the ground, digging for minerals, or in the boardroom making decisions? Or do you feel more manly when you are out on rig in the middle of the dangerous ocean? Fishing? Looking after your cattle? Driving an … Continue reading

South Africa Tolerates Violence Against Poor Black Young Men
Africa / African / Blacks / Government / Masculinity / Men / Power / Race / Violence

South Africa Tolerates Violence Against Poor Black Young Men

There’s no better time to make men aware that many of the behaviours the majority of them tend to associate with true manhood are more likely to lead them to an early death than the delivery room. Use the teachable moment when a man’s wife or girlfriend is giving birth and we might start to … Continue reading

Feminist / Gender / Masculinity / Men / Power / Violence / Women

The Problem With Men Is Because They Are Too Nice To Women

The problem with men is because they are too nice to women?  What the hell! In what universe? And to be non-violent and fair is to be gay? Ok, this is not all bad. It simply means we do have a lot of work to do. See, at times I have my doubts. I think, this stuff is elementary. … Continue reading